. Learn the simple techniques that can quickly bring your ex girlfriend back
. See the errors many people make that hurt instead of help the situation

Some men just don’t know when they are on to a good thing and their reasons for endingrelationships borderline ridiculous. Too many times men have put this question to theirfriends: how do I get my ex girlfriend back? Honestly, one would think it was usually a woman’s prerogative to change her mind.

My male friends have ended relationships with their girlfriends for silly reasons, to name a few:

1) wearing the wrong type of shoes; or
2) her mother; or
3) because the new barmaid at his favorite bar smiled at him.

Now I can understand number 3 - pretty girls turn heads; and in relation to number 2, there is the dreaded notion that a woman may turn into her mother. However, guys - come on; ending a relationship because of the wrong type of shoes?

If women refused to date men due to their choice of clothes, the human race would have been wiped out by now. There is the saying that behind every well dressed man is a good woman- first his mother and later on his wife!

I always tell my men friends that they need to make an advantages/disadvantages list before choosing to end a relationship. Ask yourself questions like do you find her interesting? Are you attracted to her? Does she laugh at your jokes? Does she look after you? Does she cook for you?

On the disadvantages side, okay, may she nag a little too much. However, guys, maybe if you just accepted the fact that the toilet seat remains up she just might stop with the nagging. She may not want any more than a cuddle and a kiss every single evening, but this does not mean she does not care enough.

Evaluating in writing the good and the bad may seem like a cold and hard fast approach, however there are elements of practicality and logicality in this way. Only after comparing the two sides of the list do you then decide whether a break up is in order.

Putting your thoughts down on paper, for whatever exercise, always helps to clarify a decision that needs to be made. We may regret the breakup and feeling lonely, but loneliness is not enough of a reason to get back together.

However, if you have left your woman and you soon realize that this was a mistake; act fast. Like money, life partners do not grow on trees. Not many women are willing to put up with many things. If she put up with a lot, then why not accept her for her flaws like she had done with you?

Take a leaf out Richard Gere’s book and put some romance back into her life. It’s never too old fashioned to send her flowers; not any random ones, but some of her favorites. Post her a handwritten letter telling her how much you love, appreciate and miss her.

Make a reservation at her favorite restaurant and treat her to a night out. It is quite simple really. Treat her just like the princess you believe her to be. Presuming that you are not a complete and utter disgrace, you will never have to ask friends again about how to get your ex girlfriend back.

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If you would like to learn how to keep a woman happy, keep reading! Once you master it you are bound to win the heart of your woman forever; so it must be worth trying.

It’s all very well having a man who is able to find and share a solution to every problem. However sometimes a woman is not looking for a solution; all they want to do is talk and all they want is for their man to listen. 

It is not a secret that a woman can spend more than a couple of hours on the phone to a friend who she is later meant to be meeting up with; women know how to talk! However, this goes back to the days of cavemen. Whilst the men were out hunting, the women stayed at home where their ability to bond with others was directly linked to their probabilities of survival. Women often depended on other women to look after them and their families should they fall sick; women were part of a community.

It is also not a shock to discover that women like to go to the toilets in pairs or in triplets. It is just a female thing; the sooner men accept this then the better. However, men please do not get paranoid, on our trip to the ladies, say during a double date or a gathering, the purpose of our trip is not actually to gossip and compare notes about you. Why? This is because that is a task for tomorrow instead; another couple of hours on the phone.

It’s never too old fashioned to buy your lady flowers. But do not just make grand and meaningless gestures. Rather than buying her a bunch of roses just because, send her one of her favorite flowers every so often instead. This will go a long way and be considered as thoughtful. This way she will believe that you are actually thinking and that you listen to her when she speaks of her favourite things.

Never make assumptions. The smallest of things could signify a lot to women. The small things count. Irrespective of the fact that you may work 60 plus hours per week to pay the mortgage or to put the children through school, never forget to find time to call your woman at least once a day. There is nothing wrong with calling to tell her that you miss her or to tell her what time you will be home that evening.

Say thank you when she does even the most basic of things.  Everyone including women like to be appreciated so on returning home and noticing that your woman has cleaned the bathroom, notice it and make an effort to keep it clean.  Little things like picking up your towel from the bathroom floor will go a long way.

Be thoughtful kind and think ahead. If your woman returns home from a hard day at work, why don’t you run her a hot bath and pour her a glass of chilled wine whilst you put the children to sleep this time, or prepare dinner. Please men do not spoil the gesture by expecting any sexual favors in return.  In a recent survey, women admitted that being kissed without being groped was one of the things that would make them happy.

Why not take it that final step further? Surprise your woman with a love note under her pillow which tells her how much you love or appreciate her. Be warned. She might assume that you have done something wrong associated guilt with your actions. However, all in all she will be happy.

Making a woman happy involves doing the smallest things in life just that little bit more

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